Essential maternity items for a first time mom

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Essential maternity items that you actually need and use

Essential maternity items can help ease your pregnancy journey. But there are so many things being offered and recommended out there that one can get a bit lost at some point. 

I did with my first pregnancy. Especially because I had my first pregnancy when I just relocated to a new place, a new country where I didnít know many people yet. And those who are dear to me like my mom, my family and my friends are too far away from me. 

Yes, I could ask and talk to them to get opinions and advice on what I should get and have. But when you check online or browse the social media, wow did I get lost in the hype.

There are so many products out there that claim to make your first pregnancy easy

Every product was calling me out and telling me that they are the one and only thing I should use throughout my pregnancy. And when I talked to a mom next to me at the antenatal class, she would praise yet another new must-have item.

Now, after having gone through two pregnancies, I feel like I have to share what I found out about what the actual maternity items that a new mom needs are. The items that will truly help the pregnancy journey. Because I found that there are too many unnecessary things out there. 

Essential pregnancy items for first time mom far from home
Pregnancy items that every first-time mom must have

Some things that I was eagerly buying for my first pregnancy were just not needed that I didnít feel missing out on when I didnít use them in my second pregnancy.

But, equally, I found a few things very useful throughout my second pregnancy that I didnít have in my first time. 

So, find out what those must-have items are, and see if you can avoid wasting your money.

As we know that the first pregnancy is a once-in-a-life-time experience because everything is new to you. Youíre excited about having your first baby, and youíll be tempted to get yourself ready for your pregnancy journey. I was and I did. 

But if youíre like me who doesnít have the luxury of splashing your money away and prefers to save for your baby instead, youíll be more selective in buying your necessities. 

Besides, you donít want to pay for things that youíll only use for a few months and then theyíll be the residence of your attic, do you? Well, I donít.

Maternity items list 

So here is the maternity items list that ACTUALLY USE and NEED during your pregnancy. 

1. Supplements and Vitamins

I canít stress enough about the importance of taking supplements and vitamins. Because Iím a big fan of supplements and Vitamins outside the pregnancy journey anyway.

My reason is, even if we eat good food every day, itís not guaranteed that it has all the nutrients we need. So yeah, talk to your doctor/GP if you need to know which supplements/vitamins you should take. I personally took Pregnacare supplement during both of my pregnancies. I couldnít feel happier with it.

2. Anti Stretch Mark Cream

Iím sure you all know about how important this cream is. By now, you mightíve heard recommendations of all sorts of creams, lotion or oil that probably confused you which one to choose.

I personally can not swear by any particular brand or item. Because I used two different products for my two pregnancies, i.e. Burtís Bees Mama Bee Belly Butter during my first time, and Palmers Cocoa Butter Anti Stretch Mark Lotion throughout my second time. And Iím happy with both of them.

At the end of the day, I think we have to consistently apply the product to get good results. To be honest, I used to apply the cream many times in a day. I just like to make sure my skin is always moisturized and hydrated.

3. Maternity Leggings

As for maternity clothes, I used to love maternity tights. These are just normal leggings with an extra bit of soft elastic band around your tummy. I found the maternity leggings/tights were very practical as you can wear anything on top. They were must-have items of my maternity wear.

Because they give a bit of support in holding your bump. So they take a bit of weight pressure as your bump gets heavier.

4. Maternity Belt

This maternity belt helps take a lot of the weight pressure of your bump so that your back wonít have to do the heavy lift all the time.

And this is so helpful in the last trimester when the belly gets bigger as the baby grows inside it. Especially if you have a big pregnancy tummy like me. Having the belt means a bit of comfort on the back when you are moving about on your feet.†

5. Maternity Jeans/trousers

Theyíre basically a pair of jeans/trousers with soft stretchy material around the tummy. This over-the-bump bit will give you comfort in moving and walking as it holds your baby bump for you.

Make sure you buy the same size of jeans/trousers as you normally would before your pregnancy. Because I was trying to be clever when I bought my first pair of maternity jeans by getting them in one bigger size. They turned out too big!

To be on the safe side, I suggest you measure your hip around under the bump to get a more accurate size.

6. One Bigger Size A-line Shirts/Blouses/ Dresses With Front Opening

I found that wearing A-line shirts/ blouses/ dresses (aka baby dolls shirt/dress) was the best option during pregnancy. Because theyíll stay wearable literally throughout the pregnancy. And even when the baby arrived. The style is so classic yet so comfortable depending on the material.

In the last trimester, you would want to get all your clothing with the front opening really. So that they will be useful to nurse your baby later on.

7. Bigger Size Bras

Make sure you measure yourself properly. As much as you need to keep changing the size as you grow bigger, for the last trimester you might want to get proper maternity bras instead. Because your size in the last trimester is pretty much the size youíll be at the end of your pregnancy. So may as well you get good quality maternity bras that can last longer when the baby arrives.

8. Good Quality Maternity Bras

Please donít make the same mistake that I made. I bought my first few maternity bras solely based on the price. It turned out theyíre the worst ones. Luckily I only got a few of them. So I switched to quality based choices.

If you plan to nurse your baby for at least one year (two years is recommended), you may as well invest in getting good quality maternity bras.

9. Comfy Shoes and Sandals

Obviously, you can wear your lovely stilettos during your pregnancy, if you want to. But youíll want comfy shoes or sandals ready, especially for summertime pregnancy or even for walking around the house.

Theyíll be your favourite footwear items when your bump gets bigger ?.

10. Footstool (or Maternity/Nursing Chair and Stool)

Yes. A simple kitchen footstool will do. The idea is to lift your feet up whenever you sit down. And as your bump gets bigger, youíll want to rest your feet up even more.

But if you want to treat yourself, I would recommend a comfy chair and footstool set which you can use again to nurse your baby.

11. Foot cream/lotion

As soon as I reached the final trimester, my feet got tired and ached easily. And on hot sunny days, they used to get swollen which make it more uncomfortable. So, I used to soak my feet in warm water mixed with a little bit of Epsom salt, and then massage them with foot cream/lotion. I found it soothing and reduce the discomfort of the ache.

12. Foot Bath and Spa

If you think youíll do regular self-care, youíd probably want to invest in buying a foot spa. So that you can do DIY self-care whenever you need it.

13. Big Fluffy Pillows or Maternity Pillow

Youíll find it challenging to sleep towards the end of your pregnancy due to your big tummy. So, you may want to lie down on your side as you put one pillow underneath your tummy and another one in between your legs.

This trick worked fine for my first pregnancy. But for my second one, I decided to a speciality pregnancy/maternity pillow.

14. Aromatherapy essential oils

I always love aromatherapy and I use it a lot for our house fragrance. But when I was pregnant, I used the oils even more. Because I found the essential oils helped me to relax and chill. Especially when my bump got bigger and I found it difficult to rest. So using aromatherapy was my way-to-go self-care. I used to use an old-fashioned-style oil burner. But now you can get a more practical oil lamp.

Conclusion on maternity items that you actually need and use

As tempting as it is to get all sorts of things to make your first pregnancy easy, at the end of the day you should be more sensible to choose what you actually need and use.

Of course, youíre allowed to buy anything you want. Especially if you can afford them anyway.

But if youíre like me, having a modest lifestyle and prefer to save the money for your baby, then youíll have to decide wisely.

From my experience of two pregnancies, the following items are the only essentials during pregnancy.

  1. Vitamins and supplements
  2. Anti-stretch marks cream/butter/lotion
  3. Maternity jeans/trousers
  4. Maternity leggings/ yoga pants
  5. A-line tops/ blouses / dresses
  6. Bigger size bras and good quality maternity bras
  7. Comfy shoes/ sandals
  8. Footstool
  9. Foot cream/ lotion
  10. Big fluffy pillows/ maternity pillow
  11. Aromatherapy essential oils
  12. Maternity belt
  13. Maternity/nursing chair and footstool
  14. Foot Spa and Bath

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If you find the list helpful, feel free to share it and pin it. Don’t forget to check my other posts that you may like:

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?The most essential things to prepare before your baby arrives

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All the best.

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  1. I had several different Maternity belts through out my pregnancy. Mostly because I had a hernia but also to support my back and hips. A must have I think. It was brilliant and really helped x

  2. Leggings! Yes! I love leggings! The best part about leggings is that I used them when I was pregnant and also daily when I am not pregnant!

  3. This list is EXACTLY what you need because you are so right, there are so many things out there showing that we need a whole lot more. I can’t tell you how many things we got that we never used. I especially benefitted from the pregnancy belt. My belly was way to heavy for my tiny frame and it relieved so much pressure. Thank you for this GREAT list!

    1. Thank you. Sometimes the simpler the better. Too much of anything may not be useful. I’m glad that you found the maternity belt helped you.

  4. I used a lot of these except the belt. I will say that antacids were my best friend and wouldnít walk around without compression socks and slippers! Good list!

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